So, here's some ideas right now:
~ Groomsmen: Black suits, gold/champagne/honey ties. Done.
~ Bridesmaids: black dresses, gold.champagne/honey accents (shoes, bracelets, hair pieces?)
or Black dress, gold accents + gold shoes (did you know they can dye shoes any color?!) Maybe this style? Obviously with black instead of red:
Here's a picture of all the available accents from this dress place (http://www.ariadress.com), is the accent too corny (obviously all three is too much, but one or two...)??